Three Fool Proof Ways to Attract a Faithful Man

Some women seem to always get the perfect men and some don't. Their spouse is faithful and devoted to them. Then there are your relationships. Your relationships are never like that.

You can't remember the last time that your boyfriend didn't cheat on you. You always seem to choose men that can't be faithful. What can you do to stop the same thing happening in your next relationship? Three important factors can assist you to keep cheaters out of your life and allow Mr.

Right to enter in. Most importantly, you must gain the ability to be at peace with yourself. Many times, women look for a boyfriend to feel better about themselves or to evade being alone. Jumping into a relationship for one or both of these reasons rarely leads to a healthy relationship. Getting a boyfriend when you are unsure with yourself and what you want only complicates things. Not to mention, cheaters commonly prey on people who don't esteem themselves highly.

Why? Generally because women with low self esteem are more liable to deal with more because they don't believe they ought to have any better. It is so vital that you feel good about who you are and know you merit a great man before letting someone into your life. Second, you need to be aware of what type of guy you need and what strengths you have to offer to a relationship. Obviously, you want a man who is trustworthy.

But often infidelity is more of an indicator that a relationship is already troubled. By understanding what you need in a partner and knowing what you bring to a relationship, you will be able to enter into a relationship that has a high likelihood of success. Instead of constantly working through differences, you can spend the time helping each other and your relationship grow. This will help you turn towards each other for love and support instead of searching for it elsewhere. Finally, it is important to follow your head, not just your heart. All too often women allow incompatible men into their life because of their emotions.

Many times there is definitely something alluring about risky types of men or men who are not compatible. But allowing them into your life and expecting commitment or happiness with them is illogical. You chose who will be your romantic partner. If you only allow your emotions to guide you, you may choose wrong. But with increased self opinion and knowledge of what you need, you can guide your heart to the man of your dreams.

Wendy Bridger, MSSW, shows you how to stop the cycle of cheating partners and find true love in "Get the Right Guy for the Real You." Learn how to make a soul mate companionship that lasts!